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    So as a kid I remember a hot summer's afternoon where I was 'volunteered' by my Dad to hand him tools as he worked on repairing the back porch ceiling.

    He on the ladder, cussing, spitting, and sweating heavily as he tried to hold the patch into place with one hand, set the screw or nail with the other hand, and securing that screw with his third hand ... oh ... yea!?!

    During that session he passed onto me one of his famous Rules for Life which I found to be too true today.

    This afternoon I was the one stretching to reach the outdoor light fixture with one hand, trying to attach the new fixture with the other hand while trying to shove all the wires and wire nuts underneath and setting a bolt through the new socket into the wall case which ... of course ... was too short to grab the bolt hole in the wall socket ... all while holding the screw driver between my teeth ... AHHH!

    Do I even need to say that My Beloved was behind me the whole time making sure I didn't fall off the bath bench precariously perched on the porch so that I could reach the fixture while he offer ... being polite here ... me sage advice on how to do this little job.

    And as I stood there, on that bench, on my tip toes, I could so hear my Father's voice .....

    "All five minute jobs take an hour and a half, lots of cussing, and at least two trips to the hardware store!"

    Sign ....

    Did your Dad, Mom, or even Grandparent leave you with a Rule of Life that you have found to be too true?

    Susan
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    My father used to say "Do as I say not as I do" I would ask " Why" and the responce was " Because I am the boss" still holds true today Anna tells me the same thing!
    Goody

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    • #3
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      But Goody ??? Didn't he become the Boss by doing what he did instead of doing what he should have done ??? I'm confused!

      Susan
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      • #4
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        Well, I was fretting about whatever it was I was going to wear to school one day, and my mom told me "You wear the clothes, don't let the clothes wear you." That advice did make me a little less self conscious, and I still hear myself thinking that sometimes when I'm not sure about my attire.

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        • #5
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          After my dad died and left us pretty well financially strapped, I asked my mom if we were poor now. I'll never forget the glare I got from her and these sage words......"Poor is a state of mind!".

          Al

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          • #6
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            My rule of life is to NEVER get caught useing the wife's eyebrow pencel to mark wood ..
            She came into my workshop this afternoon and thats when the fight started ....

            hehehe

            Cheers
            AL

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            • #7
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              I think the words of wisdom : "You become who your friends are, so be friends with people who have values you respect." is so true, as I keep telling my kids. I can think of a few woodcarvers I'd like to be friends with and become as talented as they are!!!!

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              • #8
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                Originally posted by AL... View Post
                My rule of life is to NEVER get caught useing the wife's eyebrow pencel to mark wood ..
                She came into my workshop this afternoon and thats when the fight started ....

                hehehe

                Cheers
                AL
                Oh ... fall HARD on the floor ...

                That one, Al, reminds me of when someone was desperate to finish their carving but discovered that his local hardware store was out of sanding seal, which he simply had to have to finish up.

                Well ,,, being me ... I replied that I have often used cheap hair spray, as Lady Clariols, as a quick alternative that works just as well at about a 1/4 of the price. That was way back when on the old WoodCarvers Digest email list and I don't ever think they let me forget that post.

                Big Grin ... who won?

                Susan
                Lora

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                • #9
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                  After you are 20 minutes into that 5 minute job and you discover you have to go to the hardware store which is 30 minutes away look at you watch and note the hardware store closes for the weekend in 10 minutes
                  Herb

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                  • #10
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                    My Pop's famous credo which he passed on down to me was "Never hire anyone to do something that you can do yourself. You can always screw up a job two or three times before it would have been cheaper to hire someone to do it right in the first place." I've followed that advice my entire life and learned an awful lot. It's only been in the last year or so after my wife took my ladder away and I can't lift things so heavy anymore that I have to find someone to help out and it erks me to no end!!!!!

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                    • #11
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                      My father was a tyrant and would always tell us "children should be seen and not heard." Fortunately his words don't hold true today as we can learn an awful lot from our children. Just try to figure out something new on your computer!
                      Keep On Carvin'
                      Bob K.

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                      • #12
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                        Hi Susan
                        Lets just say that Im begining to get used to the decor in the Doghouse lol

                        Cheers
                        AL

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                        • #13
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                          My rule of life is "**** happens, so get over it"

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                          • #14
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                            Well, my dad pretty much passed these along...

                            You can never work hard enough, or acheive the "best" as there is always something to learn. Never to be satisfied with what you have acheived, but to work ahead to always better than wheren you are today.

                            Not so much always in those words, but thats how he raised me since i can remember.

                            Not a bad way to be, especially in todays society of instant gratification, passing the buck and wanting to get credit for lots but working for little.

                            AJC

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                            • #15
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                              Originally posted by fly fisher View Post
                              My rule of life is "**** happens, so get over it"
                              Yes it does happen.. To some of us more often than others!

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